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Bangkit setelah jatuh
18 Nov 2013 | 8:28 PTG | 0 candie blossom
Setiap dari kita pasti ada rasa kecewa, kecewa dengan sesama manusia. Suatu waktu, pasti kita pernah memohon sesuatu kepada Allah, dan mungkin sampai saat ini belum ada jawaban dari Allah dan mungkin pula tidak dijawab Allah. Kita sebagai manusia memang boleh memohon, boleh berkehendak untuk meminta itu, meminta ini, tapi Allah lah yang menentukan, apakah itu baik buat kita atau tidak, Allah akan memberikannya kepada kita kalau hal itu baik. Kecewa itu pasti dialami, tapi yang terpenting dari itu adalah BANGKIT, kita mesti bangkit dari kekecewaan, buat apa menyesali yang sudah lewat, buat apa difikir terus, kita boleh fikir saat itu dan kita harus bangkit, kita tau itu bukanlah yang terakhir, kita jangan tenggelam, seharusnya kita mendapatkan pelajaran berharga dari situ, dan jika kita boleh bangkit itu adalah pelajaran yang lebih penting, adalah lebih baik orang yang pernah gagal dan boleh bangkit. Bagi kita yang kecewa, kita pun harus sedar dan bangkit jangalah kita tenggelam dalam kekecewaan, janganlah kita lari dari masalah dan janganlah kita berpaling dari Allah Percayalah dan pasrahkan semuanya pada Allah. And one more, ALLAH telah menyatakan dengan jelas di dalam Al-Quran bahawa DIA tidak akan sekali-kali menguji hambaNya diluar kemampuan hambaNya. ALLAH mengetahui kita kuat dalam menghadapi ujianNya, oleh kerana itu ALLAH memberikan ujian itu ke atas diri kita. Di sini kita dapat lihat betapa sayang dan kasihnya ALLAH kepada kita sebagai hambaNya. ALLAH menguji seseorang bukan kerana ALLAH benci kepada kita tetapi percayalah ALLAH menguji kita kerana DIA sangat kasih kepada kita. Cuma kita sebagai hambaNya, adakala tidak mampu bertahan dan bersabar dalam menghadapi ujianNya. Thanks for everything :')
9 Nov 2013 | 5:50 PG | 0 candie blossom
Life is always full of challenging and difficult situations. In our personal lives, difficult and complex situations will always happen too. We can get sick or people we love might get sick. Relationships change. People die. One day, we die. I'm moving on with life. I don't really need you anymore, I want to thank you, for everything you've done. And i know it's going to be hard, but i have to move on. Im strong. I will get through this, as much as it hurts i have to move on. I hate the fact that I have to leave but if I dont, I never will. It's time to move on i have to move on. You've turned me into a nervous wreck. Sometimes the hardest part isn't letting go but rather learning to start over. As long as I am breathing, in my eyes, I am just beginning. And this! you can't look back - you just have to put the past behind you, and find something better in your future. "Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today" I'm sorry :(
4 Nov 2013 | 1:27 PG | 0 candie blossom
In loving relationships, there are several important things to know. One of these is that the key to a successful relationship is being able to apologize. The more intimately you are involved with another person, the more difficult it becomes to say I'm sorry. You are aware of her faults and she is aware of yours. It is very easy in the heat of battle to hurt your partner in a very sensitive place. Your partner trusted you by forming a relationship and letting herself be vulnerable. When you say, I'm sorry, it must be done with the sensitivity to understand the line that was crossed I am sorry. I don't want you to think that I'm saying those words lightly. I really mean them. I am so sorry. I know that what I did was wrong and I know that it hurt you deeply. I'm not sure what I was thinking, but I do know that I never wanted to hurt you. I wish I could take it back, but I can't. All I can do is try to show you how much I regret what I've done and ask for your forgiveness. I know what I said hurt you deeply. The moment those words left my lips I knew that I couldn't act fast enough to retract them. Your reaction was justified. If someone whom I cared about had said such things to me, I would have reacted the same way. "I'm sorry" doesn't seem to be adequate. I wish I knew how to say it better. I've relived that moment over and over and wondered how I could have been so insensitive. I don't think I have ever been so disappointed in myself. |